UrmWhyNot(Lea)

Ramblings Of Transgendered Woman

  • Friday Apr 2nd, 2010
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..On successful transition, outlook, mindset, and recognition...

It's one of those things we all worry about... "will we be successful".. Success means a lot of different things for different people, but for a transgendered person, it can mean the difference between knowing happiness, and living miserably, so for us, it is an absolute.

And in saying that, I can guarantee you that you can succeed at conquering the challenge of gender transition, and the way you can do this, is by understanding who you are, and what is founded in your experience as a transgendered person.

Oh yes, many have been here, in this place of self-hatred, and hatred of existence itself. The loathing of the self, in body, and mind is probably one of the best things to do, if you DON'T want to success with gender transition. Understanding that you are as natural, and "normal" as anyone else, and truly accepting of this is a key goal in learning to assimilate with your transgenderism.

You must be able to take a higher mindset in concerns with the westernized/christianized/boganized view that has developed within society. And realize the ignorance of a culture that holds so much emphasis on gender, yet cannot seem to accept the phenomenon that is transgenderism.

To be transgendered in a world which is full of sheep at times, is truly something especial. I mean, think about it...if knowledge is power, then transgendered people are some of the most powerful manifestations of humanity. We are gifted with the ability to see two sides of the human condition that is gender, and therefore we can define gender unlike our cisgendered counterparts. We are truly the ultimate expression of gender in all of its possibilities, and the knowledge founded within that by those who experience transgenderism is most profound, and must be appreciated.

The world has this problem, where we as humans, are judged from the outside in, and that the mind can never be trusted because it is assorted, and is prompted by free will. Transgenderism in theory tells us this mindset is wrong, and is diluted by a disillusion of non-conformity. That the mind is actually the ultimate puppet master of the body, and that it is more than natural that sex and gender are not conjoined by a physical definition(vagina does not equal female gender, a penis does not equal male gender).

Scientifically, the subject of study in any field is the teacher, and holder of all knowledge of itself. Whether it be forensic evidence, or a blood sample for testing, or the human brain even.. we seek to know these things by the study of them, simply because they are naturally occurring, and that man has a curiosity to know more about everything. When we look at a human brain for example, if we judge it, we would say it looks like a pink wormy, slimey thing, with not much to it. But the unbiased study of the brain will tell us differently. Why this same logic hasn't been extended to the study of transgenderism can be put down to religious input, and poor study of the human mind in so many cases.

As we find ourselves more and more deeper into this time called "the age of information", I have a stern and unwavering belief that transgenderism will find its way out of the stone age, and be given a real chance at true academic and scientific recognition, and that this will extend further out into society, and government. And that finally, after so much toil, and grief, transgendered people, at least in some parts of the world, will be liberated...

Much Love, Lea
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